Attending a funeral service is an emotional experience, especially if you were particularly close to the deceased. As such, taking some time to prepare yourself prior to the event will make it easier to get through. But if you’ve never lost a loved one before, you might not be sure how to brace yourself for what’s to come. To make the situation a bit more manageable, follow the helpful tips below. 

3 Ways to Prepare Yourself for a Funeral Service 

1. Socializing

Although the primary purpose of a funeral is to grieve for the departed individual, it also serves as an opportunity to offer condolences to the surviving family members. If you were related to the deceased, prepare to have guests share anecdotes, their apologies, and best wishes. They likely won’t engage in an extensive conversation—most people simply stop by to offer some words of support. 

2. Practicing

Because funerals are often so emotional, it’s often helpful to practice the duties you may need to perform during the service beforehand. For example, if you’re going to give a eulogy or share a reading during, rehearsing them prior to the funeral will provide you with the confidence and strength needed to deliver the speech. If you feel emotional during the reading, don’t worry—just go slowly, and speak from the heart. 

3. Asking for Help

If you feel apprehensive, nervous, or overwhelmed with grief prior to the funeral, reach out to a friend or family member for support. The waiting period before the service can be difficult, especially for those who have never attended one of these services before. Leaning on your loved ones for advice, comfort, or simply a place to express your emotions will help you feel better prepared for the upcoming event.

If you need help preparing for and planning a funeral, turn to the compassionate team at Adzima Funeral Home in Stratford, CT. For more than 100 years, this family-run business has helped residents in Fairfield County put together beautiful, touching services to honor those who have passed away. Give them a call today at (203) 375-2200 to schedule an appointment, and visit them online for more information on what they do.