A funeral is a difficult and emotional time for everyone, especially for the close relatives who must plan the details of the service. Having a checklist to guide you can give some structure and stability if you’re overwhelmed by the process. Here is a preliminary list to provide you with an overview of the many tasks that need to be done. 

A Guide to Planning a Funeral

1. Write the Obituary

Part of the planning involves putting out a public notice, known as an obituary, online or in a newspaper. The writing will announce the death and provide an overview of the life lived as a way of honoring the deceased. You’ll typically want to include any basics, such as their profession, hometown, and surviving family members, as well as any major life milestones or accomplishments. When you’re finished, contact the newspaper where you’d like the obituary to be posted.  

2. Decide Method of Burial 

If your loved one stated their method of burial in a will or made it known to you privately, you can carry out their wishes. If not, you’ll need to decide if you want them to be buried or cremated. Some people prefer the tradition of burial for religious reasons, while others opt for cremation due to its affordability and the option of scattering or storing the ashes. 

3. Choose the Structure & Marker

You’ll also need to choose the structure that will hold the remains of the deceased. In the case of a burial, that will entail selecting a casket; for a cremation, you usually pick out an urn. In either case, you’ll have the option of adding a memorial inscription. 

4. Determine Service Details

Once you’ve made those decisions, it’s time to focus on the service itself. Determine where it will be held, what type of service it will be—whether it’s religious or military, for instance—and who will speak or read a eulogy. You should also make flower arrangements and if you think it would be meaningful, pick a reading or selection of music to honor your loved one. 

While a funeral can be filled with sadness, knowing the planning process can ease some of your stress. Located in Meadville, PA, Robert W. Waid Funeral Home has become known as the area’s most respected funeral home. Available to help with all of the arrangements, the warm staff is an extraordinary resource for the bereaved to help them make their way through the grieving process. To schedule an appointment to discuss any details, call (814) 724-1021, or visit their website to learn more about their services.