The divorce process is stressful enough on its own, so most couples want to ensure it goes as smooth as possible. Fortunately, there are some steps every couple can take to ensure the issues surrounding their split are effectively resolved. Below, the divorce law attorneys at Brown, Burgoon, & Hartnagel, PC in Nanuet, New York, share the do’s and don'ts of getting divorced.

Do:

Cooperate With Your Spouse

Regardless of the reasons why you're splitting up, it’s imperative you work with your spouse to make mutually agreeable decisions. This means being open to discussions, negotiations, and compromise. If you insist on putting up walls and battling your soon-to-be ex at every turn, the divorce will be far more stressful for everyone.

Disclose All Property & Assets

Divorce laws help determine how property and assets are distributed after a split. As part of your filing, you will be asked to disclose all property and assets you and your spouse own. Take the time to compile a careful inventory of these items, and never try to hide assets by transferring them to someone else or into undisclosed bank accounts. Be honest and put everything on the table—it will only make the process easier.

Don't:

Neglect Your Children

Children feel the shock of divorce most profoundly. Even if they seem okay with all the changes, they could be harboring fears or anxieties. Always make time for your kids, and reassure them that the divorce is not their fault. Also, don't hesitate to seek outside support if your child needs it. A therapist can be a source of guidance and stability for a child struggling to come to terms with a divorce.

Violate Temporary Custody Orders or Schedules

If child custody is an issue in your divorce, the courts will likely issue a temporary order of custody and visitation schedule. These will stay in place until permanent arrangements are made. No matter how you feel about the temporary orders, stick to their terms and honor what is asked of you. If you violate a custody or visitation schedule, you will display an unwillingness to work with the courts, which won't reflect well on you or your case.

You don't have to face the end of a marriage on your own. Let the divorce law and family court attorneys at Brown, Burgoon, & Hartnagel, PC look out for you at every step. They are proud to serve families in Rockland and Orange County. Call (845) 624-1966 or visit their website to set up a free consultation today.