Getting a divorce is emotionally trying. It’s not unusual for these couples to go through several stages of grief, similar to when a loved one passes away. After spending almost two decades representing people, they have established themselves as the go-to source for support and legal counsel while navigating the complexities of a separation. They discuss how spouses come to terms with the aftermath and take back their lives.

Emotional Stages of Going Through a Divorce

1. Denial

When your relationship first dissolves, it’s natural to find yourself in a state of disbelief. Regardless if your marriage had been breaking down for a while or you were suddenly served divorce papers, it can be difficult to mentally grasp that the union has a reached a point that is irreparable.  

2. Anger

Once you start accepting that your relationship is coming to an end, you may begin blaming others for what you’re going through. Feelings of anger are likely to arise as you reflect on how things could have been different and all the responsibilities you will be left to manage on your own after the divorce is finalized.

3. Bargaining

Next is the bargaining stage. This is where you may attempt to change the outcome of the situation in an effort to save your failing marriage. This often involves offering to adjust behaviors and searching for any solution that will help reignite the flame you once felt for one another.

4. Depression

When bargaining doesn’t work, it’s common to slip into a state of depression. There is typically great sadness in losing a relationship you thought would last forever. You may withdraw from friends and family and no longer have any interest in doing activities you once enjoyed.

5. Acceptance

Acceptance is the final stage of grieving a divorce. This means you accept the finality of the terminated marriage, and you recognize the need to move on. Although you may still be sad, you’re ready to begin healing and building a new future for yourself.

Understanding the range of emotions you may feel throughout the divorce process will help prepare you to deal with the situation in a healthy manner. As you transition into the next chapter of your life, you can rely on Fulcher Law Firm to remain objective and keep your best interests in mind while working out the details of your case. Contact them at (704) 984-6060 to schedule a consultation, or visit their website for additional information on the various legal services they provide.