Throughout the United States, many women are trapped in abusive relationships, afraid that the danger of staying is only matched by the risk of trying to leave. No one should have to live with a physically or emotionally abusive partner, so John Bach, a divorce lawyer with over 30 years of experience in Goshen, has some tips for women who want to safely leave an abusive marriage.

Successfully getting out of this situation requires a significant amount of planning. He recommends you start by:

• Collecting Your Resources: Hide away as much money as you can, in cash if at all possible. You should also memorize the phone numbers of local women's shelters in case your situation gets so bad you have to leave in a hurry.
• Confiding In Someone: This step is never easy, but you'll have to tell a family member, friend, or coworker you trust who can help you escape. Set up a code word or signal that will let them know when you're in need of immediate assistance.
• Taking Care Of Your Kids: Find a place for your children when you leave, and make sure they know that their job is to keep themselves safe, not to protect you.
• Hiring A Professional: A skilled divorce lawyer will be able to help you with the unique needs of these situations, from arranging emergency support to arranging orders of protection. With an expert attorney to guide you through the process, you can put this terrible chapter of your life behind you.

John Bach has the experience and training you need to help in a wide variety of legal situations, whether you're creating a will or powers of attorney. Visit his website to learn more about his practice areas, or call (845) 294-7941 to find out how a divorce lawyer can help you today.