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Sending a floral arrangement after someone’s passing is a gentle gesture of sympathy and respect. Whether you’re attending a graveside funeral or a memorial service, it’s important to choose the right flowers to reflect your relationship with the deceased and their family. The professionals at Jacqueline M. Ryan Home for Funerals in Keansburg, NJ, are here to offer guidance. 

How to Choose Flowers for Memorial Services & Funerals 

1. Choose the Flowers

memorial serviceYou can choose any flower you wish for a funeral service, but some are more appropriate than others. The most popular choice is a white lily, which symbolizes innocence and purity. Orchids are symbolic of love bonds, while chrysanthemums symbolize honor and respect. Roses are another traditional choice; as with many flowers, the color of rose determines its symbolism. Your florist or funeral director can help you choose an appropriate color and variety. 

2. Consider Fragrance 

Some blossoms, such as stargazer and Madonna lilies, can perfume an entire room. The scent might be pleasant and even comforting to some. However, if you know some attendees have allergies or aversions to strong smells, consider selecting something with a subtler fragrance. Your florist can offer suggestions for lighter options with a similar meaning or appearance. 

3. Pick the Arrangement 

Once you’ve selected your flowers, decide how you’d like them arranged. There are many different styles to choose from, depending on your preference and your relationship to the deceased. For instance, if sending an arrangement to a deceased co-worker, you might send a large wreath on behalf of the office. If you were close with the deceased, you might select a casket spray or a personalized wreath containing a photo or message. Smaller arrangements are typically sent directly to the family, while you can send more substantial pieces to the funeral home. Sprays are usually draped over the casket, while standing wreaths are displayed on an easel, often near the casket or at the graveside. Bouquets can also be posted on tables in vases or baskets. 

Funerals and memorial services are emotional events, and it can be challenging to know how to pay your respects with floral arrangements. When in doubt, consult with the funeral director. It’s part of their job to help guide guests, as well as survivors, through this difficult period. If you’re a Monmouth County resident seeking help with funeral planning or arrangements, contact the caring professionals at Jacqueline M. Ryan Home for Funerals. Since 1947, they’ve offered residents a broad range of funeral services. Call (732) 787-1177 to speak with a staff member, or visit their website to order flowers online. 

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