One of the most challenging aspects of dissolving a marriage is discussing the issue with your children. To minimize unpleasant conversations, parents are often tempted to sidestep the issue or make the discussion as brief as possible. However, this approach usually won’t fulfill your children’s needs or give them the feeling of security they need through this difficult experience. Below are some tips for talking to your children about divorce.

3 Tips for Discussing Divorce With Your Children

1. Avoid Blaming One Another

As acrimonious as discussions in your divorce attorney’s or therapist’s office may be, it’s important to present a united front to your children. Be civil, and explain that the separation is better for everyone involved, including the children. You may deal with a variety of negative emotions, but airing them in front of your children is not in anyone’s best interests.

2. Have Answers Ready

After hearing that your marriage is ending, your children will most likely be afraid, so work out a plan in advance, so you have answers to their questions. They will also want to know why the marriage is ending, so have an age-appropriate explanation that does not cast too much blame on one party.

3. Tell Them You Love Them

Make sure your children understand that the divorce has nothing to do with them, and they are in no way at fault. Although you and your spouse no longer love one another, let them know that your feelings toward them have not changed and that you will make sure they have all the love and support they need.

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