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Although it’s not something that’s often discussed, everyone must eventually face their own mortality. There are a lot of emotions to process during the end of life, and unfortunately, many logistics to consider as well. If someone close to you is nearing the end of their life and looking for a shoulder to lean on, you should be there for them. Part of supporting someone during their finals days is discussing their options for funeral plans. Chances are, this conversation won’t come naturally to you, but here are some factors that need to be discussed.

Funeral Services

Discussing funeral service options is important. Does the person you love want those in attendance to deliver eulogies? Do they want people to be able to bring flowers, or would they prefer donations to a charity of their choosing? Should the service be religious, or simply a celebration of life? There are many details they might not want to face on their own, but with your help, perhaps they can plan a funeral service they would be proud of.

Burial Options

Part of discussing funeral plans is deciding on burial options. The main question with this discussion involves the decision to be cremated or buried. If cost is a factor, you should know that cremation is a more affordable, albeit less traditional, option. Honor the requests of your loved one and go over the logistics of burial versus cremation in as little or as much detail as you’re both comfortable with.

Create Documentation

funeral plansInitiating a conversation about funeral plans can be difficult, but once you’ve started, you should convince your loved one to document their final wishes. You can also document their wishes for them to approve later if that’s more helpful. When the conversation is finished, you should have a file in your hands that contains a person’s will and a list of preferences. Ideally, this list would contain information that divulges their list of preferences for a funeral service and burial options.

 

Show someone you love them by honoring their last wishes. At Abriola Parkview Funeral Home in Trumbull, CT, we will help you with your loved one’s funeral plans right down to the very last detail. For more information, visit our website or call us directly at (203) 373-1013 to speak with a representative. You can also connect with us on Facebook and Twitter.

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